A Point to Ponder………..
Posted October 10, 2007
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It’s been a week, and it refuses to go away from my mind. I am talking of very disturbing news I received the last week. It set me thinking, and I felt I would get some insight into it from my readers.
So here goes.
M was a diligent worker my father had employed more than 10 years ago. He had been with us through thick and thin and was a reliable person, one to go and solve crises, whenever they arose.
M accepted another offer a couple of years ago, and was working there ever since. He had been unhappy from the last couple of months and was speaking of coming back. Dad said it was ok for him to come back anytime he wanted. He spoke to Dad just the previous Sunday and said he wanted to meet him, and Dad spoke to him that evening and the gist of the conversation was that he would report to work the coming Wednesday.
Things are smooth so far.
Now, on Wednesday morning, M’s father calls up, and we hear the inevitable. M committed Suicide, by hanging, the previous night.
What I do not understand is, why do people suddenly decide to take such a drastic step?
Did M not stop to think of his aged parents, his wife and his little daughter? Did he not feel that he was responsible for them? Why did he become so self -centered? Did he feel that his dying would put an end to his miseries, what ever and however serious they may have been? Did he not realize that his problems would haunt his family even after his death, and that he could have found some solution?
I have several more questions buzzing in my head, and wish M were here to explain the logic behind his action. Sad, but the ultimate truth that the questions will remain unanswered, for ever now.
8 Responses to "A Point to Ponder……….."
It is very sad to hear this very unfortunate situation where a family consisting of aged parents and wife and little daughter are put into an unexpected hardship and misery. when he had been assured of job by your father his old employer there was no need for such drastic step but now all we can do is only discuss and unfortunate event has happened and hope the family will get all the strength to bear the loss of the bread winner for family. in life nothing will stop the afected family has to undergo suffering and limp back to normalcy in course of time and time is the healer. hope they will have some one to support and make their life co mfortable in the days to come
may the departed sour RIP
it’s unfortunate and my deep condolences to M’s family. Its very sad that many suecide and suecide attemts are for very sill reasons. I think Vetran Journalist Sainath tells better about the Suecides in Villages. Just for mare 2000 to 5000 many lives hav been lost. That money is just fraction to the earning or avg. earnings of cities.
It may bit off topic. I think the Lack of spiritual Quotient is the reason for Suecides. Aaseye Dhukake Mula. But it takes lot of guts to suecides(could try out lol!!).
Miss Vani I have become your huge fan by reading your articles. Would you please consider me as your student and teach me how I can improve on my English . I would like to express my thoughts & opinions like you. Please guide me I should become like you.
Regards
Tejesh
vani madam one more student added. :D!!!!!!!!!!
1 | Shruthi
October 10, 2007 at 10:04 pm
Very sad to hear that, Vani. Sometimes, we can never understand why people do the things they do.
From what I have heard, when a person is in severe depression, he tends to do things which he is no even aware that he is doing. Who knows, probably this was the case with him?
Anyway I hope his family gets the strength to tide over this difficult time.